Was I Good?

Forgive me guys, but I have to write about this as I found it was hilarious when a guy asked a girl, "Was I good?" after their night together. I mean, seriously? How do you expect a girl to react to that question? By saying 'no dude, you were suck!' or just simply lie? Here is the thing and this is a little fact that I found recently, guys were often to be intimidated by their own performance in bed hence their needs for acknowledgment. For some kind of egoist reasons, they want their girls to say out loud how good they were in bed. And that believe it or not, on some guys, determined their self esteem.

Okay, here is another thing, girls are actually need acknowledgments as well but it was for a different reason. Girls, or at least girls in general, were normally want to know whether they were good or not in bed just so they know whether they made their men happy or not while guys want to know it for their self confident. What a selfish thing to do, but after all, that what makes the different between these two opposite sexes, right? Oh well, that is according to Doctor Dewi, ha!

A few years back, I was with a guy who had this slightly problem with his self confident therefore he was like always text me the next day after our sleepover and asked if he was good or not. And let me tell you a funny thing that happened on my first night sleepover at his place. As an OCD girl, it wasn't that easy for me to sleep in someone else's bed, so yeah,even though he was my boyfriend at that time and I often found myself spent the night in anyway, but since that was my first officially sleepover then I was kind of nervous. I had this some kind of anxiety attack. So yeah, when he was out to see his friend who happened to have a birthday party that night at a bar nearby his house, I took a sleeping pill from his drawer and had it. All that I can remember after that was waking up at 3 AM not knowing where am I. So weird and all that I want on that particular moment was my bed and my room but I couldn't find my car keys to get me home and my psycho thought said that it was my boyfriend who hide them. But since I wasn't myself because of the pill and was too tired to argue, so yeah, I just went back to bed instead.

Then of course, I was kind of having a 'huh?' moment when the next day my boyfriend text me and asked if I had a good time last night? Seriously guys, right on that second, I tried so hard to remember everything that happened not even 24 hours ago yet, but failed. I totally lost my time between 9-3 that night. My head was completely blank. But since he was waiting for my answer and I don't want to hurt his ego, so yeah, I lied and said that it was my best night ever. I know, am a bad girl, but as I mentioned above, how do you expect a girl to react to that question? It was kind of tricky question, you know? Wrong answer can cost you your sex life like forever, ha! But yeah, even until now, I still don't remember what happened that night but the guy is still in believing that it was my best night.

Alright, enough about my experience, I don't want to give anyone a wrong perspective about me, but yeah, the fact that guys were often to be intimidated with their performance in bed as they were often determined their ego and proud on it. One thing guys forget is that girls are normally don't really care. I mean, of course we will be happy if our guys performed as a monster in bed, but if they don't then we'll deal with it. Girls are normally tend into canoodling thing. So as long as you remember to kiss and hold us after, we will be more than happy. Seriously, don't you know it already? That was the reason why we fake the orgasm at first place, just so you guys thought that it was so freaking great then we will get kisses and cuddles afterward. Ha!

Okay, let be serious now, my point is actually about how vulnerable guys can be when it comes to bed department compare to girls. I mean, guys were always need girls' approving about their sex performance while girls were wisely knew about it already hence our faking thing just to keep the guys happy. But, my question to all of the girls is, if your guy ask you whether he was good or not in bed while he was indeed terrible, what would be your answer to that? Would you tell him how suck he was or you just simply lie?

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