Okay, here's the thing, if people that you thought were your friends said something bad about you or gossiping you behind your back, is the problem was you or them? I know they said it takes two to tango, but if you don't reckon doing anything bad then was that mean that you are suck? To make it even worst, when they found out that you knew they were bad mouthed you, they didn't say anything apart from blaming your other friend who told you about what they said. Seriously guys, we are not talking about friends that you just met recently here but this was about someone that you've been hang out with like forever. Kind of shocking? I bet!
So, if you are in this situation, what would you do? As for me, I cried, but not because of what they said more over a disappointment. I mean, when you thought that people who you trusted to be friends with stabbed you from your back, it hurts even more than if it did by your enemies, right? Of course, because when it did by your enemies then it won't be any shocking at all about it, because you were kind of prepared for that anyway. So yeah, for me it was not just hurting but also heart breaking. But then again, even though you try so bad to make everyone happy, you can not expect that anyone would love you because a dear friend told me that when you do something good for others don't expect anything in returns, it will ruin the essences of helping itself. So yeah, I guess I've done my part, but if that still not enough and they were still hating me for some reasons, then the problem is them, not me. I'm sure there must some explanations behind all of those bad mouthed things, and to be honest, I don't really care. The truth is, as I said all the time, when people said something bad behind your back, it must be because of they don't like you. And when people don't like you that must be because of they envy you for some reasons. And it was so human to be envy of someone that better than you. So yeah, for me, more people envy me, the happier I will be. Because that means that more people think that am better than them. Even though I never expect it from my dear friends, but still, it shows me who I am and who they are and where we stand on. What a great lesson I've just got from life. Oh no, am not going to scrub them from my friends list, oh no I will not do such thing that pull me down to their level, but it sure will open my eyes that even your dear friends are capable of bad mouth you behind your back, even if you treat them as good as you can, do not expect that they will do the same to you. Besides, everyone has issues in their life that you were probably couldn't understand but that's life. Tough, but when you got through it, it's going to give you a very good lesson. Hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, remember?
Now, back to my question, am I suck? I don't think so. The only problem that I had was my expectation towards my friends was too high.
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So, if you are in this situation, what would you do? As for me, I cried, but not because of what they said more over a disappointment. I mean, when you thought that people who you trusted to be friends with stabbed you from your back, it hurts even more than if it did by your enemies, right? Of course, because when it did by your enemies then it won't be any shocking at all about it, because you were kind of prepared for that anyway. So yeah, for me it was not just hurting but also heart breaking. But then again, even though you try so bad to make everyone happy, you can not expect that anyone would love you because a dear friend told me that when you do something good for others don't expect anything in returns, it will ruin the essences of helping itself. So yeah, I guess I've done my part, but if that still not enough and they were still hating me for some reasons, then the problem is them, not me. I'm sure there must some explanations behind all of those bad mouthed things, and to be honest, I don't really care. The truth is, as I said all the time, when people said something bad behind your back, it must be because of they don't like you. And when people don't like you that must be because of they envy you for some reasons. And it was so human to be envy of someone that better than you. So yeah, for me, more people envy me, the happier I will be. Because that means that more people think that am better than them. Even though I never expect it from my dear friends, but still, it shows me who I am and who they are and where we stand on. What a great lesson I've just got from life. Oh no, am not going to scrub them from my friends list, oh no I will not do such thing that pull me down to their level, but it sure will open my eyes that even your dear friends are capable of bad mouth you behind your back, even if you treat them as good as you can, do not expect that they will do the same to you. Besides, everyone has issues in their life that you were probably couldn't understand but that's life. Tough, but when you got through it, it's going to give you a very good lesson. Hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, remember?
Now, back to my question, am I suck? I don't think so. The only problem that I had was my expectation towards my friends was too high.
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