Don't Hate Me 'Cause Am Skinny

I went out for dinner with some friends earlier tonight and during that, in our briefly conversation, one of them came up with this idea that I should cut my hair short. When I asked him where this so called brilliant idea came from, he was like, “You are too skinny now, so maybe if you cut your hair short then you’ll look a bit heavier.” I was like, “WTF? What’s wrong with my look? I mean, when it comes to weight issue, how skinny is too skinny?”

Here is the thing, I aware very well that I have a petite figure so that even though if I put up a bit of weight, it will hardly notice. My best friend in the other hands has an opposite type of body with me, so that she looks so different. People thought that am a lot smaller than her while actually I was only like an inch shorter than her. No one ever realize that unless if they seen us stand up side by side. So yeah, I was actually considered myself lucky at this point, but clearly, it’s not so much for my dear friend.

Then, this thing was kind of made me think of weight issue which I normally never care. Ever since I was a little girl, I never was a fatty. But as they said, once a girl always a girl. And as everyone knew, and this wasn’t even a secret anymore, girls are having a huge problem with numbers the whole times. We were kind of terrified with measurement almost all the time. I mean, seriously, when guys lie about their age it was normally to make them even older. While girls lie about their age to make them younger. Guys never have any problem to weight themselves in public while girls do. As a matter of fact, this was a huge NO-NO for girls. But, am no ordinary girl as I have no problem whatsoever with my weight. I know, you would probably hate me for saying this, but that was the truth. In fact, I can barely care. I mean, as long as am comfortable with what I had, I don’t care what people say. Often, when a friend asked me whether he or she looks too skinny or too fat, I honestly say I don’t know. Seriously, I never even noticed if anyone lost or put up their weight, even though they’re my closest friends. So, why someone even bother with mine?
Well, actually I appreciate their concerns, but it doesn’t mean that I will follow their advice, right? I’ve my hair short before and I don’t really like it, that’s I know for sure, so why would I cut my hair short and get back to that situation once again? Seriously, thanks but no thanks. I love my friends and I knew that they did that because of they care, but I have my own prerogative to decide what I want, don’t I? So yeah, thank you so much my dear friend but am sorry for ignoring your suggestion. I love myself just the way it is so please, don’t hate me ‘cause am skinny?
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